Life is the name of moving forward
Just now we just live tomorrow, how will I live? You must have heard the song sung by Reshma for a long time in this situation?So is it a better option to take one's own life after separation from someone or to live with suffocation? No person with a healthy mind will have the answer. Life is the name of going on continuously, it will be a little difficult for them to understand that those who have suffered deep wounds. Separation from the partner, the cries of bitterness and deception in the relationship is enough to shatter any laughing and playing mind like a glass. This phase of a person's life sets steps in front of him in the steps. Do not kneel, let go …… say - it is easy to win, equally difficult to adopt. But, a new chapter of life has to be started somewhere.
Learn to accept reality
How could this happen ? He can't do this to me. These things have to be stopped in the mind. The reality is that it has been done and you have to accept it from him. Here you should not make him your position like a pigeon, which makes a cat look blind. The sooner you accept the reality, You will be much easier to move forward.People assume that the person they are joining will be the first and last person in their life. They start living in a fantasy world with all the vows of living and dying. While the reality is far from it. While in a relationship or after that you need to convince yourself that nothing is sustainable. What has happened to you has happened to many other people in the world and will continue to happen.
Relationship is what is right for you
A fairy tale like a prince on a horse, Cinderella or Rupenjal is good for entertaining. Their scope is also limited to childhood. They cannot be applied in a relationship. While choosing a partner, thinking is different and it changes when you live and maintain the relationship. At first, we are ready to make big agreements for only one person, but it is difficult to live such agreements.The relationship between two people is based on mutual coordination. Only two people are involved during the election of a partner, but in reality a relationship involves in-laws, friend careers such as all aspects, which are initially overlooked. If there is no harm in these things, then such a relationship will not be happy. You should know what you expect from life and it is not wrong to prioritize them.
There should be no shame in myself
Many times it happens that your parents or in-laws have to face rudeness in order to carry on the relationship. It is also possible that you have put your career at stake for some relationship. In such a situation, if the relationship breaks in the middle of the mind, grief is natural. But don't let this misery turn into malaise.Stop thinking what Loh will say, what he will think? Life is yours and you have to take steps on your own. Therefore, be ready to face the world. Also you should be clear in your mind that this separation has happened for your own good. You will have to build your self-esteem and survive during this entire process.
Avoid evil
After separation, you may have met or encountered your former partner due to children or any other reason. In such a situation, one has to stop seeing the other with hate. Any kind of grievance or misbehavior towards your partner will push you into your problems. If you want to meet, meet like a normal person and stop reminding each other about the past too. Even if you do not meet, do not be suspicious about your former partner. Acceptions had changed the priorities of both of you, due to which it was not possible to live together. Even after separation, both of them meet like friends for the sake of children.
Family's role is important
The family has a strong place in the ups and downs of human life and suffering.The daughter needs to be accepted as a permanent member of the house, not a guest. The feeling of a burden is not made on the divorce of the son, but ironically, the acceptance of a divorced daughter in the same family is like a guest. First of all it is important that the family is ready to support the daughter in every finishing date and do not advise her to reconcile her life. Talking about divorce and constant reduction in laws and mentioning them will also have to stop. It is the family, which can encourage a girl to embrace a happy life even after divorce or separation from the partner. What will people say, what will society think Stop imposing things like ....... on the daughter. When the injury is fresh, she may find every little thing about her maternal uncle bad, because she returns to her maternal home under compulsion. In such a situation, do not talk about doing jobs or removing its shortcomings. Give him a chance to recover from mauring.
Make these things part of life
Your breakup has been done. It is natural to feel a little stagnant. But now there is no other way than to move forward. It will be helpful for you to imbibe some things for the betterment of life.
Do let us know your questions and suggestions in the comment box.
Just now we just live tomorrow, how will I live? You must have heard the song sung by Reshma for a long time in this situation?So is it a better option to take one's own life after separation from someone or to live with suffocation? No person with a healthy mind will have the answer. Life is the name of going on continuously, it will be a little difficult for them to understand that those who have suffered deep wounds. Separation from the partner, the cries of bitterness and deception in the relationship is enough to shatter any laughing and playing mind like a glass. This phase of a person's life sets steps in front of him in the steps. Do not kneel, let go …… say - it is easy to win, equally difficult to adopt. But, a new chapter of life has to be started somewhere.
Learn to accept realityHow could this happen ? He can't do this to me. These things have to be stopped in the mind. The reality is that it has been done and you have to accept it from him. Here you should not make him your position like a pigeon, which makes a cat look blind. The sooner you accept the reality, You will be much easier to move forward.People assume that the person they are joining will be the first and last person in their life. They start living in a fantasy world with all the vows of living and dying. While the reality is far from it. While in a relationship or after that you need to convince yourself that nothing is sustainable. What has happened to you has happened to many other people in the world and will continue to happen.
Relationship is what is right for you
A fairy tale like a prince on a horse, Cinderella or Rupenjal is good for entertaining. Their scope is also limited to childhood. They cannot be applied in a relationship. While choosing a partner, thinking is different and it changes when you live and maintain the relationship. At first, we are ready to make big agreements for only one person, but it is difficult to live such agreements.The relationship between two people is based on mutual coordination. Only two people are involved during the election of a partner, but in reality a relationship involves in-laws, friend careers such as all aspects, which are initially overlooked. If there is no harm in these things, then such a relationship will not be happy. You should know what you expect from life and it is not wrong to prioritize them.
There should be no shame in myself
Many times it happens that your parents or in-laws have to face rudeness in order to carry on the relationship. It is also possible that you have put your career at stake for some relationship. In such a situation, if the relationship breaks in the middle of the mind, grief is natural. But don't let this misery turn into malaise.Stop thinking what Loh will say, what he will think? Life is yours and you have to take steps on your own. Therefore, be ready to face the world. Also you should be clear in your mind that this separation has happened for your own good. You will have to build your self-esteem and survive during this entire process.
Avoid evil
After separation, you may have met or encountered your former partner due to children or any other reason. In such a situation, one has to stop seeing the other with hate. Any kind of grievance or misbehavior towards your partner will push you into your problems. If you want to meet, meet like a normal person and stop reminding each other about the past too. Even if you do not meet, do not be suspicious about your former partner. Acceptions had changed the priorities of both of you, due to which it was not possible to live together. Even after separation, both of them meet like friends for the sake of children.
Family's role is important
The family has a strong place in the ups and downs of human life and suffering.The daughter needs to be accepted as a permanent member of the house, not a guest. The feeling of a burden is not made on the divorce of the son, but ironically, the acceptance of a divorced daughter in the same family is like a guest. First of all it is important that the family is ready to support the daughter in every finishing date and do not advise her to reconcile her life. Talking about divorce and constant reduction in laws and mentioning them will also have to stop. It is the family, which can encourage a girl to embrace a happy life even after divorce or separation from the partner. What will people say, what will society think Stop imposing things like ....... on the daughter. When the injury is fresh, she may find every little thing about her maternal uncle bad, because she returns to her maternal home under compulsion. In such a situation, do not talk about doing jobs or removing its shortcomings. Give him a chance to recover from mauring.
Make these things part of life
Your breakup has been done. It is natural to feel a little stagnant. But now there is no other way than to move forward. It will be helpful for you to imbibe some things for the betterment of life.
- Stop referring to the old partner.
- Do not leave your hobbies to anyone. Re-start those you have left.
Do let us know your questions and suggestions in the comment box.
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