Solve children's confusion

Solve children's confusion

Advertisement of sanitary napkins comes, you changed the TV channel but the reason for changing it did not change. Your 5 year old child is sitting next to you, the mother asks what is this? And the reason for answering you would be to start thinking It is exactly like that if you are sitting upset and the question comes from outside the course, but you cannot escape it. Sometimes children will also have to face them. It becomes important to find a way to solve the trick of the difficult question. Just as the most difficult mathematical equations can be solved with the help of the correct formulas, similarly the answers to the difficult questions of the children can also be given by choosing the right way to give the right time. 

Take care of age

Sometimes sharing information with children becomes a demand for opportunity. In such a situation, it is necessary to keep the child's age in mind while giving information. By ignoring this, reaching such information can shock their child's mind. In this regard, psychiatrist Dr. Unnati Kumar says that the child understands things at different ages at different ages. Therefore, information should be given to the child according to his age and choose both the level and method of information according to his age. Like a three-year-old should be told in brief and in the style of the story instead of telling it in detail while a teenager with more facts in detail. By doing this, not only does the matter reach the child properly but it is also his seriousness.

Preparation is important

We tell the child to prepare for his exams in advance, but in the test of life, he misses it many times and is unprepared and leaves it to proceed without preparation, if Doctor Kumar believes him Leave it to proceed. According to Dr. Kumar, there is a time for everything and before that time, we should inform the child about it. As the child comes out of the house for the first time, there are some changes in his life or in the growing age of the girl, there are some questions in his mind. Before this happens, we should make them aware of the coming revenge or their possibilities. So that the child can face those changes better.

Do not react negatively

Children do not take the name of ending their questions. Many times, inadvertently ask something that you do not understand the answer or the way to understand it. What do you do then? If you do not answer and give him a beat, it is possible that the child will come to you once again with some other people. But, if you get angry then you will definitely increase the curiosity within him. The child will start working to gather information in another way. He will hide things for fear of being scolded. Which can have serious consequences. Dr. Kumar says that no question is wrong. It is wrong that your reaction should not be judgmental for anything. Resolve the child's language with normal behavior. Discuss the issue with him, give accurate information and that too without any bias.

Tell the truth

Many times the child questions and we tell him what we want to tell. But, doing this is not the solution to the problem. The child begins to understand things with his own age and the incomplete or incorrect information given by you reduces his confidence in you. Because of you, he chooses more paths for the right information in future, which can also give him misleading information. It is better that you give accurate information to your child. Yes, if you want, according to his age, facts may be less. | 

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